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“…After reading this book, I felt reassured I made the right choice.”
Dementia: Hope Awaits – How to Choose the Best Care Option: Homecare or Facility Care” by C. L. Flemings
Signs You Can’t Afford to Ignore — And What To Do Next
- How to recognize early warning signs of dementia
- How to evaluate a facility with confidence
- How to prepare your home for in-home care
- Questions to ask when interviewing caregivers
- Ways to pay for care—and even how to get paid as a caregiver
- Navigating family conflict and hard conversations
- Checklists, interviews, FAQs, and decision guides
“Dementia isn’t just forgetting where your keys are — it’s forgetting what keys are for.”
Who This Book is For
Family Caregivers
Gain clarity and peace of mind with practical tips and decision-making tools designed for those carrying the daily load of caregiving.
Learn how to monitor your loved one’s progress and recognize changes in family or work dynamics that signal new arrangements may soon be needed.
Spouses & Adult Children
Navigate tough decisions with confidence and compassion. This book helps you balance love, responsibility, and long-term care planning. It also includes tips for engaging other family members in meaningful ways.
Friends Trying to Help
Want to support a friend or loved one facing dementia but not sure how? Learn how to step in with empathy, encouragement, and practical help — not only for the person with dementia but also for the family caregiver walking this difficult path.
Faith-Based Caregivers & Ministries
Ministers, church groups, and spiritual caregivers will find real-world insights to support families in crisis while honoring their faith and dignity. This book offers thoughtful ways for ministers, spiritual advisors, or church members to encourage caregivers, ease their guilt, and support them in making difficult decisions with grace and wisdom.
Healthcare Professionals
An insightful bridge between medical understanding and the realities caregivers face day-to-day. Ideal for primary care physicians, neurologists, and assisted living professionals to share with families newly navigating a dementia diagnosis.
Those Exploring Options for the First Time
Overwhelmed by choices? Start here. This guide offers honest, step-by-step help to get you moving in the right direction — whether you’re considering in-home care or preparing for the transition to a facility.
Author's Bio
About the author
Carla Flemings wrote Dementia: Hope Awaits after walking
the difficult dementia journey with her own mother. She understands firsthand the questions, emotions, and decisions families face. This book was written to help others make the best choices for their loved ones — with clarity, confidence, and hope.”
Reviews on Amazon
Susan D.
“This book clarified what dementia really is and cleared up myths I didn’t even realize I believed. It’s packed with tips from real family experiences, support groups, and practical advice. I learned so much about what to expect.”
Terri S
“This book is a great resource for navigating a loved one’s care. I had to place my mom in Assisted Living — the hardest decision I ever made — but after reading this, I felt reassured I made the right choice.”
Susan D.
“This book clarified what dementia really is and cleared up myths I didn’t even realize I believed. It’s packed with tips from real family experiences, support groups, and practical advice. I learned so much about what to expect.”
Terri S
“This book is a great resource for navigating a loved one’s care. I had to place my mom in Assisted Living — the hardest decision I ever made — but after reading this, I felt reassured I made the right choice.”
